"i am not at all physically attracted to you"
is an absolutely valid reason to not want to date someone.
People had the nerve to call me shallow for this.
By the way, it’s also totally cool to turn someone down without explaining your reasons. You are not interested, no will suffice. Do not feel pressured to explain your decisions to someone else.
this is so important.
I think if somebody pressures you into explaining why you rejected them then you shouldn’t have to feel bad explaining it to them. If somebody keeps asking you why you said no and you say you’re not attracted to them than that doesn’t reflect poorly on you.
